Okay, I don't believe I am actually posting without pictures. Sorry, I know it is such a disappointment, but I thought I would at least add something that happens to me on such a regular basis that I don't even give it much thought.
When I first got home and went in public with Lee, I was more aware of looks that I got. I think in my mind I was even half expecting it when I went in stores. I, by no means, get offended by this. It is human nature to notice differences in a family. I am not one of those super uptight parents who is looking for an area to be offended about my adopted child. Newsflash, he is obviously not biologically related to me.
But the question I answer the most in public when I have all of my kids (or even Lee and one of the girls) is "Are they all yours?" I know they are not asking because of the shear number of children I have...like I remember people asking my parents in public because there are six of us. They ask because as they say on Sesame Street "One of these things does not look like the others" Again, I'm not offended, I just find it funny that so many people have decided the politically correct way to ask "Is he adopted?" Is by asking if they are all mine.
So, I mentioned it to Trip tonight in passing and he said the funniest thing to me, he said I should answer "No, only the Asian one" Because in reality, that's what they want to know. At any rate, I would never deny my baby girls, I love saying "Yes, they are
all mine."